In college, I read an essay that sealed my opinion on abortion. In the hypothetical scenario proposed, an immensely talented and well-loved violinist was ill, and the only way he could be saved was to be attached by IV to a woman’s body, and her nutrients and blood would keep him alive. Did she have an obligation to sustain him? Without her, he would die. Was it murder for her not to be his lifeblood donor?
Sharing is wonderful. But what’s wonderful about it is that it is not obligatory. Whether we are male or female, we are not obligated to donate blood or kidneys or skin grafts or bone marrow. We can give these life essentials for love or generosity or altruism, but we are not prosecuted for failing to do so. When we do not, people die — fully grown people and children, rich and poor, saints and sinners. We do not have to share our bodies with others.
Pregnancy, at its best, is when a woman chooses to give one of the ultimate gifts — her nutrients and air and energy and space and body — to bring a child into the world. Hopefully, that child is brought forth with love, support, and resources upon birth. But before birth, it is simply her body that the growing embryo, fetus, or baby needs (for this discussion, it’s irrelevant which of these the pregnancy protects).
People born with testicles never have the option or risk of carrying a pregnancy. They cannot and do not have to, whether they are raped, whether they are healthy or sick, whether they are 13 or 45. People born with testicles cannot be forced to carry a pregnancy.
I realize that some people do not believe women should have fundamentally equal rights with men. I don’t even know how to argue with those people, though Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Pauli Murray were two people who did know how to argue this, and much of our remaining civil rights law hinges on arguments they made.
But for those of us who believe women should be able to vote and hold jobs, have educations, and drive cars, we have to accept their bodily autonomy as a basic right. If women can wake up and take medicine for their own headaches, if they can say no to unwanted sex, if they can feed themselves and stretch and exercise, we have to accept that women have a right to decline to carry a pregnancy to term. Regardless of whether the uterus contains an embryo or a baby, the person whose uterus is occupied has a right to decide if she can continue to donate her organs, her blood, her oxygen, and her space to that occupant.
And by the way, Jesus had absolutely nothing to say about abortion, miscarriage, or even the manner of birth. Instead, Jesus’ actions and words show Him respecting women, healing them, and supporting their prerogative to choose how they gave their gifts — time, coins, oils, and energy. I don’t think Jesus’ teachings or example should be any sort of direct influence on our laws — any more than Abraham or Mohammed should. But even if they did, abortion foes have no scriptural basis for labeling abortion as murder to a human who had never taken the first breath of life.
The Supreme Court is wrong.
