It’s always the Ten Commandments. Why is that?
There is the exception of the 2019 Kentucky law requiring schools to display “In God We Trust” prominently within their building. Maybe not the Ten Commandments, but still, it holds an air of authoritarianism. Christianity is supposed to be the New Testament Church, but I have yet to see rulings placing the words of Jesus anywhere publicly. Interesting . . .
Based on some of my opinions and beliefs, I would guess many consider me a heretic or a heathen. On the contrary, I have always been amazed by the idea of a power and source of creation greater than myself.
As a young child, I would get up early on Sunday mornings and turn on the television to watch Billy Graham. I had no idea what he was saying, but at the end, there would be an altar call, and I would go to the television in my little flannel jammies and kneel before the screen, hoping to feel closer to this God I had heard about.
Besides revealing me as a strange child, this obsession prompted my parents to start going to church. Every Sunday morning, we could be found at the Baptist church singing songs and listening to the sermons. I had thought that church would be where God was and, thus, happiness. But that’s not exactly what I found. It was there I was introduced to fear. Not the fear I already knew, like the dark or ghosts, but the fear of eternal suffering. This was new. I thought Hell was for bad people; it turns out I am bad people. Uh oh . . .
I heard in great detail about the suffering of Christ. The blood, the spikes, the beatings, the exposed flesh . . . it would turn my stomach. I feared dying before I could make my “profession of faith,” which required me to go to the altar and profess Jesus as my savior and follow that by baptism. This had to be done!
But it was scary stepping out in front of an entire auditorium of people. I would pray that God would forgive me for being afraid and allow me to live another week. You had to make it public because if you “deny Christ publicly,” he may look at you in eternity and say, “I never knew you.” Why is God/Jesus always so mad?
I eventually worked up the nerve and was baptized. That was a close one! But even then, the teachings left me questioning. Internally, of course, I did not want anyone to know these doubts. A big one for me was homosexuality. If Christians wanted to share the love of Christ, how could you share it with someone who was gay if you were angry and hated them?
That is called “love the sinner, hate the sin.” It did not feel like love to me.
Back to my original thought: why is it always the Ten Commandments? The same reason that the sermons were predominantly about the suffering of Christ and the fear of Hell. There has to be a delicate balance when repeating Jesus’s words. What if we posted John 13:34–35: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
Oh my! Does that mean I have to love poor people? People with an addiction? People of other religious beliefs? Or, dare I say, *gasp* homosexuals?
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Well, yes, that is what it means. If I were to say this in modern, everyday speech, it might sound like, “Love each other, okay? Like I love you, I want you to love each other. Love each other, okay? Are you getting this? When you love each other, they will know that you are of God. Because you are loving.”
Sounds like Jesus is trying to make a point. But the church will say, “I love you like God does, so I need to make you more like me. Get over here and let me change you!” or “I love you with the love of the Lord,” which translates to “I don’t love you, but Jesus is making me, so . . .”
You will not find progressive churches forcing biblical teaching into a secular organization. That will come from the fundamentalists and Christian nationalists. It will always be based on Old Testament law and authoritarian beliefs, not on the words of Jesus, because this has nothing to do with the love of Jesus but everything to do with control.
Posting John 13:34–35 leaves too much open for acceptance and support of people they would rather not be around. I am a firm believer in the separation of church and state and feel that religion should not be a part of the public school system. Schools should feel safe for everyone and focus on academics.
But since the Bible has entered the arena, it is essential to note what they choose to display . . . and why.

