Someone spotÂted a black bear just a few scant miles from Quisenberry Lane recentÂly, postÂing online some incredÂiÂble black-and-white selfÂies the bear took with their wildlife camÂera. I’ve been waitÂing almost 30 years to see one on my propÂerÂty. Everyone respondÂed with “bring your pets inside and get your gun,” but they were thinkÂing of brown bears, which tend to be far more aggresÂsive than black bears. Though black bears will tear it up if you threatÂen their cubs, this guy was probÂaÂbly just lumÂberÂing about, lookÂing for an open trash can to scavenge.
Once abundant​​​​​​ throughÂout the United States, habiÂtat loss and unregÂuÂlatÂed huntÂing made the American black bear (Ursus amerÂiÂcanus) almost extinct in Kentucky. Some of the oak forests logged at that time now have repopÂuÂlatÂed with fulÂly mature trees, and the bear has made a tremenÂdous comeback.
Since I was a litÂtle girl, I have been in love with bears. Maybe it was because of Mama Bear and Teddy Bear Love, my beloved stuffed aniÂmals. Maybe it was learnÂing We’re Going on a Bear Hunt in kinderÂgarten. Or readÂing the Little Bear series by Maurice Sendak, chronÂiÂcling the advenÂtures of Little Bear, his mothÂer, and his best friends Cat, Duck, and Hen.
Rest is not the oppoÂsite of growth, but a part of it. If we want to wake up to our life, we must first start in a state of slumber.
But I will nevÂer forÂget learnÂing about hiberÂnaÂtion in third grade. When the air sharpÂens and the leaves fall, bears don’t rage against the dying seaÂson. Instead, they gorge themÂselves on nuts, berries, and acorns. Then they find a dark, safe cave or den and sleep for sevÂerÂal months, their heart slowed, their breath quiÂetÂed, their body curled into itself. When they awakÂen from their extendÂed torÂpor, a speÂcialÂized metabÂoÂlism means their bones and musÂcles will be relÂaÂtiveÂly unchanged.
Sounds heavÂenÂly. I think about bears as I menÂtalÂly preÂpare for Daylight Saving Time this weekÂend. I think about bears as I load my dinÂner plate with starchy carÂboÂhyÂdrates and pour red wine up to the top of the glass. I think about bears as I don my favorite fuzzy pajaÂmas and tie-dyed socks.
While humans do not actuÂalÂly hiberÂnate, we do need more sleep durÂing the coldÂer months, ideÂalÂly an addiÂtionÂal one to two hours than durÂing sumÂmer. Basically, when there is less availÂable light, the human brain proÂduces more melaÂtonin, which can make us drowsy and set us up for longer states of dream sleep. And we are drawn to heavÂier, nourÂishÂing meals; flucÂtuÂaÂtions in our hunger horÂmones and lowÂer seroÂtonin levÂels make us hunÂgriÂer than in times of more abunÂdant sunlight.
This makes sense. All aniÂmals winÂter to some degree or anothÂer, and humans are aniÂmals. Even for those who grapÂple with getÂting good, sound sleep, winÂterÂing is necÂesÂsary. Seasonality is ubiqÂuiÂtous, despite our enculÂtured driÂve to fuss and flurÂry on all cylinÂders at every moment of every day, and espeÂcialÂly so after we “fall back” at Daylight Saving, which ironÂiÂcalÂly coinÂcides with the start of the franÂtic holÂiÂday season.
Humans can be so exhaustÂing. Animals and plants don’t need to be taught how to winÂter well. They don’t preÂtend it’s not hapÂpenÂing, barÂrelÂing through their days with the same vigÂor and speed of sumÂmer. Instead, they lean into it, sleepÂing and snugÂgling. It’s a natÂurÂal part of existing.
Rest is not the oppoÂsite of growth, but a part of it. If we want to wake up to our life, we must first start in a state of slumber.
Consider Jesus leavÂing the tomb on Easter morning.
Or Princess Aurora stirÂring at love’s true kiss.
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Or Rip Van Winkle, blinkÂing his eyes to find he’d lost 20 years.
Or the Buddha insistÂing he was not enlightÂened, only awake.
Many Shamanic culÂtures celÂeÂbrate a comÂing-of-age rite where a young perÂson is buried alive overnight, comÂmuning with Mother Nature to be reborn in their truest form the folÂlowÂing mornÂing. Saint Irenaeus, the bishÂop of Lyon, said, “The Glory of God is the human perÂson fulÂly alive.”
Waking up is holy work. Be a bear.

