I am profoundly sad. Today, I watched the President of the United States—a role that should emanate simultaneous boundless humanity, good sense, scientific acuity, and restraint—politicize the worst American air disaster in years. At a moment when compassion and curiosity should prevail on behalf of grieving citizens, there came forward only blame and deflection. What has happened to us? Is this a reflection of who we have become?
Sensical social order must prevail when people are vulnerable and hurting. Human pain should not be reduced to political points. Suffering is real and deserves collective compassion, whether confronting asylees hanging atop a border wall, reassuring families clinging to their constitutional birthrights, or supporting the leadership of highly trained rescue teams plucking bodies out of the icy Potomac.
When Hurricane Helene ravaged North Carolina’s mountains, my daughter and her friends huddled in the darkness, listening as the shrieking wind and roiling river below her hilltop house transformed her town into a sandlot. At dawn, when they emerged to gasp at unprecedented destruction, they had one raw response—“What must we do to take care of one another?”
Half the town, including roads, parks, gas stations, grocery stores, water and waste treatment facilities, communications, and electrical grids, were washed away. They pooled food and water resources. They rescued neighbors. They communicated by leaving notes on each other’s doors and survived until first responders dropped from the sky or bulldozed into town. A combination of individual determination, community pluck, and eventual government resources—devoid of finger-pointing—began the long, complex assignment of restoring their community, an effort that continues today.
A combination of public will, private partnerships, and government resources save regular people when tragedy strikes. Regardless of political yelps from either side of the aisle or media bloviating, career governmental officials who are good at their jobs usually know what to do. I’ve witnessed such salvation first-hand during droughts, forest fires, floods, and tornadoes. What I have never witnessed until now are attempts to betray public trust in government functions by the very people we elect to safeguard them.
We are entering an era of proposed unraveling of such protective structures. For example, the new administration has posited disbanding the Federal Emergency Management Agency and pitching disaster relief to individual states. The math proposition alone for that idea is ludicrous. The cost of Hurricane Helene’s assault on North Carolina exceeds $60 billion. The state’s entire annual budget is half that.
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Here in Kentucky, the federal government provided 91 percent of the funds required to rebuild homes damaged by the 2022 flood. Coming back from that disaster required a complex interweaving of federal, state, and local agencies and businesses to help people recover. Of course, the response was not perfect, but I believe most people approach such challenges by asking that familiar question, “What must we do to take care of one another?”
Over the generations, regardless of politics, we have built structures to support productive answers to that question.
We live in complex times. We are assaulted and insulted by a constant barrage of confusing information from all sides. What makes me sad is the amount of hate and blame in our social ecosystem, sometimes amplified by leaders we elected to be our better angels.
Perhaps we are destined to live in a new wasteland of anger, besieged by pols who transform human needs into zero-sum games of spite. I don’t know about you, but people I know, love, and respect don’t hate, they lead with love. In my experience, institutions built on that promise usually fare better than the ugly alternative.

