This summer, following the overturning of Roe v. Wade, I signed up to volunteer as a driver for the Kentucky Health Justice Network. I am a staunch believer that the right to an abortion is an integral part of the rights of women to receive health care. I am not “pro-abortion” – but I believe that abortion is a decision that women and their doctors are the only ones qualified to make. Whole books can be written about particular situations when women might want or need access to abortions. All of those reasons file under the tab “not my business.”
But what is now partly my business is that abortion care – and many other kinds of related non-abortion care – are hard to access for Kentuckians. Monday morning at 7:30 am, I picked up a woman I have never met, along with her family member she asked to accompany her, and I drove her to Cincinnati in morning rush hour traffic. I waited in and near my car for three hours after arrival, and then drove her and her companion home.
I have two grown daughters. As much as I love them and want to be near them, I cannot, in good conscience, wish for my daughters to live in Kentucky.
That journey and wait ended up taking eight hours. I am not in the least unhappy that I was the person available to do this. But I did start thinking about all the hours, all the people, and all the worry that is being put into helping women access abortions. I will end up spending about 15 hours helping this one woman. Other volunteers have driven women to Illinois, Pennsylvania, and North Carolina. Some colleges now pay to support student travel during summer breaks, if a student needs an abortion and cannot get one in their home state. Enormous time and money and energy are going into helping women get the basic reproductive health care they need.
Even if you’re against legal abortion rights, it has to be acknowledged that this is a huge expenditure of productive human energy that could be going to other things: to gardening, to making art, to teaching or learning, to research, to service. And the fact is, no matter how many states make abortion inaccessible, women will continue to go to enormous lengths to access abortions somehow, and there will be determined people who will help them.
I read recently that worker productivity in the U.S. has dropped. As flawed as the concept of GDP is (not including essential services such as parenting and gardening and being a spouse — anything that doesn’t directly or indirectly “make money”), it is still a measure of economic health. People without necessary reproductive health care will be less productive. We shouldn’t have to drive across state lines, using gas and time and energy, simply to ensure that women can control their own reproductive fates.
I don’t even want to get into discussing the costs of having children. While our safety nets help with some of these costs – basic nutrition and minimal health insurance – most of these costs fall to women, because the men who are unreliable about birth control and consent are the same men who don’t share these costs willingly. No small number of abortions are chosen because children are expensive and because some men fail to share the costs of raising them.
I have two grown daughters. As much as I love them and want to be near them, I cannot, in good conscience, wish for my daughters to live in Kentucky. It’s not a safe place to get pregnant, by choice or not, knowing that so much pregnancy-related care is tangled with abortion rights. I’m going to keep fighting, though, by voting against Amendment 2 and by continuing to spend otherwise useful hours to make sure women in this state have access to reproductive health care.

